The Threat of Family Violence and Concerns with Mental Health Rise Among Parents During Covid-19 Pandemic
by: Richard Stephens II
Since the first case of COVID-19 in the United States, parents have found it difficult to discuss the virus and its impact on the country with their children, regardless of age. This is not a new phenomenon. Studies have shown that after major events, particularly natural disasters and outbreaks, undue mental and emotional stress is often experienced by people of all ages as they struggle with the aftermath of the event and regaining a sense of normalcy.
As a country, the trauma we face is unprecedented, but it isn't just the dangers of the outside world, sometimes it can also come from within the home. "What if mommy or daddy relapse?" "What if they become negligent parents?" "What happens if your spouse decides to express their anger through verbal and physical abuse?" Shelter-in-Place orders can sometimes serve to our detriment when our homes aren't safe. Intimate Partner Violence (IPV), child abuse, and neglect are often associated with natural disasters and events that cause anxiety, stress, economic downturns, frustration, and isolation similar to the effects of the COVID-19 pandemic.
Without the "Stay-At-Home" order, family members who were at potential risk of experiencing IPV, child abuse, and or neglect could find refuge at work, home, community-based organizations, schools, churches, and institutions or agencies dedicated to the welfare and well-being of communities. However, these families are unable to escape their current circumstances due to these orders and may find it difficult to find help. Prior to the pandemic, people could stay with family members, go to shelters, attend support groups, etc. Now, government-funded resources are reallocated for other uses to combat the virus. Shelters and community centers once used to support families such as these may now be understaffed, closing down, or converting to purely electronic forms of communication despite being considered “Essential Businesses”.
There are still several ways to seek help with these issues as the state of Georgia continues to reopen. The DCSD Depservices they need during this difficult time. We are only a phone call, email, or text/direct artment of Parent and Family Engagement is focused on offering our parents the support, resources, and message away. If you find yourself in a situation under the threat or certainty of family violence, please contact us and take the following steps:
Create a list of local domestic violence shelters in your area and find out if they are accepting walk-ins
• Identify a trusted person with whom you can Shelter-in-Place if you are in imminent danger
• Communicate with trusted friends and family daily for support.
• Develop a safe word that you can use with trusted friends or family if you are in danger and need to get out quickly
• Find the safest place in your home where you can seek refuge if an argument or violence breaks out
• Always keep your cell phone handy, in case you need to call a friend, a shelter, or 911
• If you are in an emergency, call 911
For more assistance:
• DeKalb County School District Family IMPACT Hub
• Georgia Coalition Against Domestic Violence
• DeKalb County School District Psychological Services
• DeKalb County Community Service Board - Winn Way Mental Health Center
For information regarding The Threat of Family Violence and Concerns with Mental Health Rise Among Parents During Covid-19 Pandemic, please contact Richard Stephens II at
Richard_Stephens@dekalbschoolsga.org